It seems to me, my goals and dreams did not really have a life until they were actually down on paper. Perhaps I was treating them as far-off wishes rather than giving them merit by recording them.
In retrospect, I have begun to wonder why I did not take the advice of friends and family years ago when some of them encouraged me to follow my dreams – I believe fear was at the root.
When it comes to making our dreams and wishes come true,
there will no doubt be fear during the process.
there will no doubt be fear during the process.
Fear is a natural part of life however;
if we give into fear, how can we make our dreams come true?
if we give into fear, how can we make our dreams come true?
“Fear is merely excitement without the breath. Breathe into the fear, and the butterflies will flutter out of hiding and fly away.”
Gay Hendricks, American Psychologist,
Author and Founder of 'The Hendricks Institute'
The following is a link to Gay Hendricks ‘Five Wishes’ site which includes a free worksheet as well as information on his book and movie entitled ‘Five Wishes.’ His worksheet can help you put down on paper, your dreams or ‘Five Wishes.’ If your dreams are still in your head, you may find it difficult to focus on and define them. I am now a firm believer in writing down goals and dreams. Once they are on paper, you are able to refer to them daily. As well, you will be able to refine, revise and expand them through the process of making them your reality.
I would like to encourage you to print Mr. Hendricks ‘Five Wishes Worksheet’ and thoughtfully complete it soon. I think you will find it quite thought provoking.
http://www.5wishesbook.com/wishes/index.php
I would like to introduce you to the online article ‘The importance of having something to look forward to’ which I find inspiring. Dr. Gloria Allendorfer Anderson, PhD. wrote the article and she discusses the importance of having something to look forward to in life. The following is a quote from her article: “Many people let it get the best of them and succumb to hopelessness. Others realize that no matter how far the downward spiral of despair goes, there is always reason to hope and begin an upward climb. There is always something to look forward to. This realization is what gives people the spark of hope they need to keep going. Through the doubts and fears of day to day life and the challenges they must overcome to stay on an even keel, they cling to the hope that their circumstances will improve. The significance of this hope, even if it is just a glimmer or a ray, is what keeps them trying to make headway. It's what keeps them trying to move forward, if just a step at a time. It is what distinguishes them from the hopeless.”
Like Ms. Anderson, I believe we all need something to look forward to in life.
I also believe that our dreams and wishes for our future are quintessential to sustaining hope for our future in each of us.
I also believe that our dreams and wishes for our future are quintessential to sustaining hope for our future in each of us.
Please check out the entire contents at:
http://www.helium.com/items/878737-the-importance-of-having-something-to-look-forward-to
I was sharing with a friend Monday how I feel like I have a second chance at life. I have begun to realize there is much more I want to do with my life. My dreams and goals are in the process of being refined but; I know I have awoken inside. I am doing my best to make the most of my life now. The way I look at life now is that ‘If I’m alive, I have the opportunity to move forward and make the most of my time here on earth.’
There will always be naysayers in our lives. Sometimes it is because they are cynical and at times, they may be jealous. Your purpose is not to understand why – you must leave that at their feet and allow them to deal with their feelings as they see fit. Your purpose is to focus on your dreams and goals, write them down and define your destiny.
Remember, fear or hope can create your future. Will you listen to your fears or your hope?
You can choose to follow your dreams. You can take the steps and move forward to fulfill your dreams.
You can choose hope and you can embrace your dreams.
I would like to encourage you to create the remarkable life for yourself you have been dreaming of all this time!
Peace, God Bless and make this your best day yet!
♥ Anita Mordue ~ Mum

